„A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways“

http://bible.cc/james/1-8.htm

A person who has doubts is thinking about two different things at the same time and can’t make up his mind about anything.

I often try to be objective, like switzerland during the first and second and all wars.

Watching what is going on from a distance.

But if you are right in the middle of it.

There is no distance.

So you have to choose sides.

And life with the consequences.

For me undoubtly the maning of life is to be happy.